Freaks Come Out At Night

Hey Freaks,

Long time no see! Been super busy youtubing but I’m currently master planing the next love crimes! Sit tight!!

Lots of Love,

Xoxo

Koren

Social networking will be the end of you relationship in some way or another. As women we are naturally newsy and seek out information. Social networks are a sure fire way to keep track of or be updated on your boo’s whereabouts and who he/she is talking to. Now that social networks are installing new and more interesting security features its easy to keep you out of their online business. Thus causing pressure on your relationship because of the sneakiest that goes into both ends on social networks. The person that is unable to get the information will search and obtain it at any cost and the person withholding the information will do anything at any cost to conceal it. So both people end up being guilty and sneaky. So the social network has now deaded the trust that you had in your relationship. Without trust there isn’t much left to the relationship. This is the most simplest explanation of how you should never friend,follow, etc. your partner on a social network. Just admire from a far and put the things you learn under your hat for safe keeping. Never under any circumstances allude that you have been checking up on them once you unfollow/unfriend etc. Just keep it quiet and cute. Let them think you don’t know anything and are far to busy or could care less. This keeps them in the hole they continue to dig online or keeps them honest if you don’t find anything. Once you find enough information or reach your threshold. Calmly hold a conversation about what you found and also take screen caps of questionable things or evidence of wrong doing. Let them explain and if you aren’t convinced give them the axe plain and simple. I’ve dealt with this before and will link the vlog to go with this post!

XOXO,

Koren

P.S. Don’t become consumed with gather information or checking up on your boo. Maximum 1-3 times a day or every other day. It should never be more than that. Anything more is considered stalking and you get 2 years for that LOL. No but seriously anything more than that is uncalled for and you should maybe consider re-evaluating you relationship.

 I’m starting a new series and YouTube videos to go along with it. Its called the Love Crimes. I was inspired by heartwreching events over this past week as well as Frank Ocean’s song Lovecrimes. This should help any female or male hopefully recognize and expose people for who they truly are. I’ve been through enough and seen enough to finally be able to bring you this series. Cause after what happen this passed week it took the cake. Its cant get any crazier than that. With that being said I give you Love Crimes!! :)

XOXO,

Koren

P.S. Enjoy and share with whomever you feel needs it! :)

I was feeling so nice I decided to bless you with some heart felt shit! Enjoy!

XOXO,

Koren

 Well I also wanted you to know that if and whenever you read this you are a beautiful black king and you are worth far more than any material thing. The things I feel and see in you are absolute greatness. You are of pure heart and are to be treated as such. You haven’t even recognized what you have and what you have to offer a true black queen. Once you find her you’ll understand exactly what I talking about. You shouldn’t deal with any female below my caliber. She’s not worth your time if she isn’t able to provide for you if your unable to. She should respect and honor you at all times. She should be able to stand beside you in the best of times and support you in the worst of times. It’s so hard for me to even believe the stuff that you go through on a daily basis with the females you choose to deal with. I worry about you a lot if I’m not with. I know what your up against and how rough it is on you. I never really want a normal type of bf/gf relationship with you. That’s not my scene. I really want you to be my best friend and someone I could occasionally have sex with. I kinda got caught in the hype and  lost focus of what I wanted. It’s not really about any other female. It’s about my relationship with you. I want so much for you to be happy and have some piece of mind. I’ll do anything to make my love ones happy. And I have done and will  continue to do what I can to make you happy. I tell you I love you and care about you because I do and you need to hear it. You need to hear your worth more than what your getting from these females. Your worth more than your sperm. Most will never experience the love I have for you in there lifetime. I can appreciate you for always respecting me even if I didn’t see it. I can appreciate you not calling me out my name to my face. Real recognizes real. She or any other female will never be able to see nor understand what I do in you. So I may bitch and complain sometimes but my heart is in the right place. Hopefully one day when your truly ready that beautiful black queen you need will give you a beautiful family and you’ll have a beautiful partnership right along with it. I speaking these things over you and I believe you’ll have them once your ready. I hope you read the whole long ass message. You know I’m good for them. Once your ready I’ll be here like always. Ready and willing to help you in anyway I can. Cause I know you’ll need me for something sooner or later.

They first feature post is up! Enjoy and share!! :)

XOXO,

Koren

This is the current predicament that I find myself in. This low key relationship as many would call it. We’ve seen it come to life recently on the reality show love and hip hop on vh1. One of the shows star Emily is in a serious long term relationship with Fabulous. However he’s never been seen in public with her throughout the course of there 8 yr relationship. She’s the mother to his only son. Her issue throughout the show was coming to grips with her situation and trying to move on or see a change. Fabulous refused to be apart of the show leaving her to draw her own conclusions of their relationship. These types of relationships seem to be going on more often than not. Where men and/or women are extremely low key when it comes to displaying there relationships to everyone. Some famous examples include Will and Jada, Jay Z and Beyonce, and Oprah and Stedman. These couples couples conduct as much of their relationships out of the public eye. They relationships all have made it past the 5 yr mark and well into 10 yrs +. It leads one to wonder if keeping the details of your relationship private and secret equal longevity. All these couples started in secret to the public and have stood the test of time. It makes me look into my own situation and wonder do I really want to push for being known to everyone and not being a secret anymore? Or do I want to stay secret and have a long lasting relationship out of every one’s view. There are many pros and cons to a less public relationship. However the pros in my opinion out weighs the cons. So I’m willing to lose a little face for my relationship now for in the long run I’ll have something to share with someone that we made all our own. With that being said freaks if you have come to a congruent agreement with your partner to keep things outta public eye maintain your cool and live in the beautiful calm future that is your relationship. At least you know that the only people involved is you and the other person no outsiders. To my freaks who didn’t sign up for a private relationship leave if your unhappy no one or nothing is holding you there but you! I hope you enjoyed our maiden voyage and check back for our next feature post!! I hope this helps a Emily or Fab tryna make heads or tails of their situation!

XOXO

Koren

P.S. Freaks you can submit your thoughts and opinions in my ask box or submit a post explaining you thoughts on Low key relationships!!

Enjoy the quotes! I’m still getting debut post together.

Love you guys,

XOXO

Koren